In an article on the BBC website, a journalist recounts his fond memories of going to his working-class friend's house for tea. He writes with some kind of romantic attachment to a lifestyle (he calls it a culture) he never knew.
The comment below was made by a reader of that very same article and I think any middle class people out there who believe in the romantic, quaint notion of working class tranquility should read it - and take note.
"I am "working class", at least I used to be. Grew up in a council house on a rough estate that's been pulled down now, and thank god for that. It's very easy to see the romance in a life style that you are not required to take part in, unless you want to. Of course there is a "culture" but it is not always a good one. Working class environments can be choiceless, hopeless and dark, with few ways out.
I would like to know what happened to Jim? Did he go to college? Get to debate cultural and bourgeois issues? I was lucky enough to pass the 11+ and work my way out of a lifestyle that none of my family willingly stayed within, once they had a choice. Choice is the key, and being "middle class", with all the baggage the term carries with it, gave more choice than a traditional working class life. I think its funny that so many people carry on about how wonderful the old working class lifestyle was, but so very few people want to live it."
Lyn, Maidstone, UK
